Tuesday, February 9, 2010

What love has meant to me

"Love is when a friend flies across the country to be there for you during a difficult time... without being asked"

"Love is noticing the little things about someone that others might miss"

"Love is in the way he looks at you and you look at him"

"Love is trust, trust is love"

"When years after your relationship you still think about him all the time... it's gotta be love"

"When your mom calls you in a rage because of a terrible traffic ticket to find out that you're devastated cause you just got dumped and ends up mailing you a cheer-up package... that's love"

"When your friends bring over a tub of your favorite ice cream because he was going to the dance with someone else"

"Love is when you can break out in song and perform a beautiful rendition of 'A Whole New World' together"

"When your day is better just cause he was in it"

"When you smile all the time... that's love"

"When you feel at home around them"

"When they go out of their way to make your birthday special"

"If ever you do something you don't want to just to make them happy... that is love"

"Acting selfless"

Monday, February 8, 2010

What love means to a 4-8 year old...

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds,
'What does love mean?'
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:

'When my grandmother got arthritis , she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time , even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.' - Rebecca, age 8

'When someone loves you , the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.' - Billy, age 4

'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.' - Karl, age 5

'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.' - Chrissy, age 6

'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.' - Terri, age 4

'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him , to make sure the taste is OK.' - Danny, age 7

'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing , you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that.
They look gross when they kiss' - Emily, age 8


'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents
and listen.' - Bobby, age 7 (Wow!)

'If you want to learn to love better , you should start with a friend who you hate , ' - Nikka, age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)

'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt , then he wears it everyday..' - Noelle, age 7

'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well..' - Tommy, age 6

'During my piano recital , I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling....
He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.' - Cindy, age 8

'My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.' - Clare, age 6

'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.' - Elaine, age 5

'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford .' - Chris, age 7

'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.' - Mary Ann, age 4

'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.' - Lauren, age 4

'When you love somebody , your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image) - Karen, age 7

'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross.' - Mark, age 6

'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it , you should say it a lot. People forget.' - Jessica, age 8

And the final one

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry , the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard , climbed onto his lap , and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor , the little boy said ,

'Nothing , I just helped him cry'


When there is nothing left but God , that is when you find out that God is all you need.

Friday, January 29, 2010

My Version of "I Am"

Tears falling down my cheek, it's been the worst week
Never felt pain like this before.
You saw my heart break
Everything began to ache
When he said we could still be friends.
I was so weak, unable to speak
Still I could call you by name,
And I said, Heartache Healer, Pain Reliever
Stay by my side
And you said, I Am.

Staring into their eyes, unable to realize
Our family life was coming to an end
Thanksgiving with him,
Christmas with her.
Memories of Lake Tahoe rushed through my head.
You knew I was weak, unable to speak
Still I could call you by name
And I said, Heavenly Father, my Creator
Help me to comprehend
And you said, I Am.

Age twenty-four, confused to my core
Standing at a crossroads that will shape my life.
Which path do I choose
Which road should I take
What are the plans that you have in store for me
You felt I was weak, and unable to speak
Still I called you by name
And I said, Friend and Savior, my Protector
Help me find my way
And you said, I Am.

Life is full of struggle that we must overcome and
So I'll find a foothold that's familiar
And bless the moments that I feel You nearer

My whole life you were there, even when I'd curse and I'd swear
You've loved me through the good and through the bad.
You'll stay by my side
As I go on life's ride
Even through times that I turn away from you
I will be weak, unable to speak
Still I will call You by name
Creator, Maker, Life Sustainer
Comforter, Healer, my Redeemer
My Lord and Friend, Beginning and the End

I Am
Yes, I Am

Thursday, January 28, 2010

I Am - Nichole Nordman

Pencil marks on the wall, I wasn't always this tall
You scattered some monsters from beneath my bed
You watched my team win
You watched my team lose
Watched when my bicycle went down again
And when I was weak, unable to speak
Still I could call You by name
And I said, Elbow Healer, Superhero
Come if You can
You said, I Am

Only sixteen, life is so mean
What kind of curfew is at 10pm?
You saw my mistakes
And watched my heart break
Heard when I swore I'd never love again
And when I was weak, unable to speak
Still I could call You by name
And I said Heartache Healer, Secret Keeper
Be my best friend
And you said, I Am

You saw me wear white by pale candlelight
I said forever to what lies ahead
Two kids and a dream, with kids that can scream
Too much it might seem when it is 2am
And when I am weak, unable to speak
Still I will call You by name
Shepherd, Savior, Pasture Maker
Hold onto my hand
You say, I Am

The winds of change and circumstance blow in and all around us
So we find a foothold that's familiar
And bless the moments that we feel You nearer

When life had begun, I was woven and spun
You let the angels dance around the throne
And who can say when, but they'll dance again
When I am free and finally headed home
I will be weak, unable to speak
Still I will call You by name
Creator, Maker, Life Sustainer
Comforter, Healer, my Redeemer
Lord and King, Beginning and the End

I Am
Yes, I Am

Lost Generation



So simple but so cool and incredibly inspiring. Hope, belief and action are all we need to change the world. If everyone just tried to improve the life of a couple other human beings, we could change the world... we would change the world... we will change the world.

"Even if we can't save the world, we might as well try" - Adam Lewandowski

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Life is good


For the first time in a long time I can say that I am truly happy. A lot of that comes from being happy with myself. Maybe this is why I love to travel so much, but when I am in the states I always feel judged by everyone. It flares an insecurity in me that hinders any true happiness that I could have. People are so obsessed with appearance in the states they fail to enjoy all life has to offer. But when I am abroad I never feel that sort of judgement from anyone... even other American travelers. It is mystifying how I could feel judged by someone in the states and not when I am abroad.

It seems as though no one here cares... everyone is just wanting to have a good time. And I love it. For the first time... in my life maybe... I have been walking around in a bathing suit with out an insecure thought ever crossing my mind, without a care in the world... and this is a feeling that is completely new to me. To think that skinny people feel this all the time makes me that much more envious of them. :)

Not only am I happy with myself, but I love the adventure of my life. Living in a different country, learning a new language, traveling to new places, meeting other travelers... everyday is a new experience. And I love my job. I make crap money, but I enjoy what I am doing. I get to be creative without limitations. I am given free reign on all my projects and I am getting to learn new programs and quickly improving my skills.

All in all... life is good and I am enjoying every minute of it.

Machu Picchu


Jungle Inca Trail - 4 day 3 night hike to Machu Picchu... easily the hardest thing I have ever done, but well worth it. The first day you are driven to the top of a mountain and spend the day biking downhill... just exhilarating! Definitely enjoy the scenery.

Day 2 made me want to die. Granted I got altitude sickness, throbbing head ache, dizziness, nausia... the works. It was NOT fun. I spent the entire day asking myself "Why?"... "Why did I think this was going to be fun? I am not a hiker." We hiked up and over a mountain before lunch. Hiking up knee high stone steps mind you... and on the smallest trail I have ever scene. However, the day did end at these AH-MAZING hot springs. Couldn't have had a better end to the day.

Day 3 we hiked along these train tracks to Aqua Caliente... the town below Machu Picchu. Day 3 was actually really easy, however I wish it wasn't along the train tracks cause I spent the whole day looking at the tracks trying not to fall instead of enjoying the beautiful scenery.

Finally Day 4 was spent at Machu Picchu. We woke up before dawn to be one of the first 400 people in the park so we could get a ticket to Waynapicchu, which I highly recommend. Words can't express how awe inspiring Machu Picchu is. A mountain top paradise. The Inca were truly an amazing culture. Pictures do not do it justice. Seeing the clouds slowly reveal this ancient civilization on top of the world was a sight I will never forget. And finally climbing Waynapicchu, where more ruins await you is a MUST. I found this quiet little corner where I sat at the edge of a cliff admiring Machu Picchu below, alone with my thoughts, nothing but silence. It was a perfect moment.